Witch, Please: 7 Self-Love Spells That Don’t Involve Anyone Else
A playful, empowering guide to magical rituals that make you the main event
Let’s be honest—sometimes the most powerful love stories don’t involve anyone else at all. Sometimes it’s about lighting a candle, grabbing your favorite crystal, and saying “I am the magic.”
Whether you're deep into your spiritual practice or just flirting with the idea of a little woo, these 7 self-love spells are here to remind you: you are already whole, worthy, and wildly powerful—no soulmate or spellbinding text message required.
🕯️ 1. The “I Am Enough” Mirror Spell
What you’ll need:
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A mirror
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Your reflection (gorgeous, obviously)
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A self-love affirmation like: “I am enough. Just as I am, I am worthy of love.”
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Optional: Lipstick, to write it boldly across your mirror
✨ How-to:
Look yourself in the eyes and repeat your affirmation slowly—three times or thirty, you decide. Feel it in your bones. Say it until you believe it. Then say it some more.
🔗 Pair with a candle from our Sacred Scents Collection create a sacred mirror moment
🔥 2. Burn the BS (Release Spell)
What you’ll need:
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A small piece of paper
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A fireproof bowl or cauldron (obviously)
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A candle or lighter
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A black tourmaline or smoky quartz crystal
✨ How-to:
Write down what you're releasing—self-doubt, comparison, guilt, that “I should’ve” energy. Light it up (safely!) and let it burn away. Visualise the old falling off you like ash.
🔗 Cleanse your energy with Sacred Stones or a grounding incense blend
🌹 3. Love Potion Bath Ritual
What you’ll need:
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Rose petals or rose essential oil
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Himalayan salt or a bath soak from your shop
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One pink or rose quartz crystal
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Your favorite playlist (cue the love songs)
✨ How-to:
As you fill the tub, set the intention to pour love back into yourself. Place the crystal nearby, speak your intention, and soak like the divine being you are.
🔗 Create your own potion with goodies from the Self Care Collection
✍️ 4. Write a Love Letter to Yourself
What you’ll need:
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A notebook or your favorite journal
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A pen
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Zero shame, full heart
✨ How-to:
Start with “Dear Me,” and write the kind of letter you’d want from someone madly in love with you. Make it sweet. Make it sassy. Make it real. Seal it, and open it when you need a reminder.
🔗 Find a beautiful journal in our Journals Collection
🔮 5. The Main Character Candle Spell
What you’ll need:
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One gold or white candle
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A clear quartz crystal
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A mantra like: “My light is magnetic. My energy is enough.”
✨ How-to:
Light the candle while focusing on your power. Visualise your energy expanding around you like a golden aura. Speak your mantra as if you were casting it with intention. Because you are.
🔗 Shop intention candles from the Candles collection
🌕 6. Full Moon Forgiveness Spell (Just for You)
What you’ll need:
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Pen and paper
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A moonstone or selenite crystal
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The light of the full moon (or your intention if it’s cloudy)
✨ How-to:
Write down what you forgive yourself for—things you’ve carried too long. Read it out loud. Then bury the note, tear it up, or burn it as a sacred release.
🔗 Use crystals from our Witches Guide To Crystals set or Sacred Stones
🧿 7. The Aura Armor Spell (aka Boundaries, Baby)
What you’ll need:
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Black obsidian, labradorite, or any protective crystal
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A mantra like: “What’s not mine doesn’t stick.”
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A few deep breaths
✨ How-to:
Hold your crystal and visualise a glittering energy field around your body. Say your mantra. Carry that boundary-boosting vibe with you all day like an invisible crown.
🔗 Explore our Protection Crystals or Crystals
Final Words (Of Power)
These spells aren't about fixing you. You were never broken. They're little reminders that self-love is a ritual, a rebellion, and a revolution all at once. Whether you go full witchy or keep it soft and soulful, remember: every time you choose yourself, the universe takes note.
So next time you’re feeling low, just light a candle, hold a crystal, and whisper:
“Witch, please… I got this.”
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